Personality vs System by Alexander Lyadov

How important it is to have a group of like-minded people for everything. It helps not to go mad, because entropy accumulates in a closed system. Also, the fact that there are weirdos like you reduces anxiety: "Phew, I'm not the only one". Also, having someone else to trust allows you to evolve and progress in a given activity. And while plants use pollen to cross-pollinate, people use ideas. By cross-pollinating different ideas in a supportive environment, synthesis occurs. That is why, having found such a circle, man longs to return to it, for it is the zone of his growth.

The ideal of single-mindedness is not in the golden handcuffs of dogma, but in one's attitude to the study of the chosen phenomenon. It is very easy to confuse one with the other, especially when a small fluid movement eventually turns into a large rigid system. The problem with any system is that its main (unannounced) goal is to preserve itself. In order to do that, it will do literally anything. When it comes to survival, morality is alien to the system. Every system is created by individuals, but ultimately the system does not need an individual.

But as the context changes, the system must either reinvent itself or die. The system cannot reinvent itself, and change is repugnant and scary to it. Only a person is capable of the necessary renewal of the system. However, the system sees in such an agent of change not a surgeon, but a pathologist. That is why the system attacks the individual as fiercely as the white blood cells attack the pathogen.

Few individuals can withstand the pressure of the system on their own. . But even they sooner or later form a circle of like-minded individuals, creating a snowball effect. If you are a founder and hungry for change in your business, look for people who think like you - among employees, entrepreneurs and outside experts. It’s still up to you to initiate change, but with the support of others, it will happen faster and easier.

Yours sincerely,

-Alexander


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Why are musician and entrepreneur alike? by Alexander Lyadov

Rick Rubin, one of the most famous music producers of all time, on the Huberman Lab podcast said: “Understanding how you feel without second-guessing yourself is probably the single most important thing to practice as an artist or a skill set to develop as an artist. To know how you feel and own your feelings. The reason that I chose to be an artist is to demonstrate this is how I see it. If I undermine my taste for some commercial idea, it defeats the whole purpose of doing it. And this is not what this process is about. This process is I am doing me and I am showing who I am, and you can like or not, but either way this is still how I see it.”

In this respect, the entrepreneur and the musician are very similar. You could say that their best representatives demonstrate an almost uncanny trust in themselves, or rather in that voice inside that pushes them to act in a certain way. This is most evident in moments when the opinion of the whole society is set against the founder’s idea or a piece of music that breaks the popular pattern. Today it is thought that Elon Musk might become the world’s first trillionaire, but watch the 2011 documentary Revenge of the Electric Car, where Elon, as CEO of the startup Tesla Motors, attempts to bring about a tectonic shift in the auto industry. However, with the release of its first roadster, the company is haunted by one failure after another. All the money from the sale of PayPal has been invested in Tesla, and it is now facing bankruptcy. It hurts to see how exhausted, depressed, and discouraged Ilon is. Where does he draw faith in the rightness of his path at this moment, when both circumstances and market experts and the public are skeptical or against his idea?

I have been studying the phenomenon of entrepreneurship for a very long time, and I am fascinated almost hypnotically by the personalities of the founders. Why? Probably because the pulse of authentic life is felt more clearly in them. Again, why? The nature of their activity burns out all the extraneous, artificial and superfluous by fire. To use the terminology of Buddhists, there is more Tathātā (Suchness) in entrepreneurs. Again, why? The answer lies in Rick Rubin’s insights — they simply cannot do otherwise, for that would be a betrayal of themselves, or rather, of the Force that drives them forward.

Yours sincerely,

-Alexander


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The headless horseman by Alexander Lyadov

Some companies are like a horseman with no head at all. That is, all the elements (horse, harness, rider, gallop) are there, but something is missing. And don't let the regalia of management and levels of organizational structure deceive you. Yes, the company is moving steadily, but like a sleepwalker who is sound asleep at the moment. Either the market is creating traction, or the inertia of past successes, or the occasional jolt from within. But despite the bustle of the sailors and the whistles of the bosun, there is no one at the helm.

Where has the captain gone? Oh, there could be many reasons. Perhaps he was too tired from the long voyage, burned out and locked himself in his cabin. Or maybe he realised his ship was lost at sea and went into anabiosis. Or perhaps, imbued with the ideas of universal equality, he voluntarily resigned his post. Either way, the purposeful movement has disappeared - there is no one to set the course.

All the necessary elements are there, but there is no coordinating idea: "For what? And without a function, any form, even the most elaborate, is meaningless. And it's not even about the answer, because there are many ready to offer an inspiring goal.

The point is that there is no one willing to take personal responsibility for everything. When you are blamed even when fate has treated you unfairly. When no one will thank you after you have saved everyone with a colossal effort. When a decision has to be made in total uncertainty, alone, here and now. Most people are not prepared to make such sacrifices. Leadership is a heavy burden, not an intoxicating power.

So my first question during the diagnosis is, "Is the founder fulfilling his function?"

Yours sincerely,

-Alexander


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Service or product? by Alexander Lyadov

There is no service entrepreneur who has not dreamed of launching his own product.

Of course, the unknown beckons, especially seeing the success of a number of product companies.

The founder says, “I want to do something tangible that I can ‘get my hands on.

But if you dig deep, the real reason is something else.

The founder of a service company is just dead tired of milling the wind.

Struggling for customers, employee wage increases, and low margins were killing the point.

The first 5 years it was interesting, the next 5 pulled out of habit, but now the energy is gone.

Sell the business? No one. To reassign? Impossible. Get up and leave? No way.

Out of the dilemma comes the dream of the product as the miracle solution to all problems.

However, only a few manage to realize this dream.

Why? Making a Wow product is no easier than a Wow services business.

But if the founder has invested 10 years in services, with a product you have to go over it all over again.

It’s much easier and faster to rethink the current service delivery model.

The goal is to create an order of magnitude higher value for customers, in exchange for getting a margin of x2-3.

And then, having a surplus of cash, you can do product R&D.

The industry doesn’t matter - IT outsourcing, law office or architectural boutique.

What is important? A desperate determination to reinvent your services business.

Sincerely yours,

-Alexander


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Who needs this strategy anyway? by Alexander Lyadov

If the team asks the founder for a strategy session, it’s both a bad and a good sign. Why is it bad? The very fact of the request speaks to the extreme desperation of the employees-they are confused, disoriented, and tired of exerting extra effort for nothing.

In large corporations, management brings down strategic plans that are often divorced from reality, but at least they are there and can be criticized or tried to improve. In medium and small businesses the situation is sometimes worse. Everyone pretends to understand where, why and how the company moves, but it is not fixed anywhere in a clear and structured form. And the market winds are constantly changing, forcing the captain of the business to suddenly lie down on a different tack. What’s left for employees to do? First, to develop the ability to read the owner’s reactions, and second, in their discretion to decide locally what is best to do.

If there were computers instead of humans, perhaps they would end up agreeing on something. But people have different experiences, IQs, psychotypes, values, and ultimately personal interests. So even those of them who sincerely want the company to do well bump into each other because of differences in information, assumptions, and interpretations. But cynics, intriguers, and liars feast like crocodiles on a herd crossing in these murky waters. In such chaos, talented people don’t stick around and run away, burn out, or give up. Even if the business has historically had a margin and liquidity reserve, general inefficiency will sooner or later destroy that reserve.

Why would the owner want to maintain a delusional state of affairs? Oh, there could be many reasons. From infatuation with other businesses to a desire for power, because confused people are easier to manipulate. But if we do not take the most destructive extremes, it often turns out that the question, “What is our strategy?” the founder does not know the answer himself. Out of pride he cannot admit this to anyone, including himself. But since he is expected to be the bearer of secret knowledge, everyone plays a silly game as if the company has some kind of genius strategy.

Okay, but what’s the good sign? If, in spite of all of the above, a group of employees joined forces, gathered their spirits and approached the owner with the initiative of a strategy session, then all is not lost. It means that there is a strong and healthy core in the team. The worst reaction is to ignore them, to resent their “disrespect” or to grudgingly allocate a budget for inviting a moderator, say, let the kids have fun. On the contrary, if the founder gratefully accepts this team momentum and personally leads the process, there is a great chance of developing a winning strategy that will give the company a fresh start.

Yours sincerely,

-Alexander


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How to accelerate change in a group? by Alexander Lyadov

Once a top manager I know surprised me a lot. He said: “Can you teach me how to run a strategy session for a group of co-founders of a large business? I know you’ve been doing this for a long time, which means you have the tools.” My first impulse was to say no, since training is not my business. And my sessions are so specific that I still need to comprehend the experience for myself. But the top manager explained that the stakes were too high - his future career depended on the effectiveness of this event.

The situation was complicated by the fact that the participants were mature entrepreneurs, smart and cynical people used to tough negotiations (a feature of the industry). In addition, there were historical tensions between them. The cherry on the cake was that there was no tradition of such sessions at the shareholder level, that is, it was an experiment for everyone. My acquaintance could not refuse the offer, but could not vouch for the result either. Managing companies, of course, he organized meetings, trainings and brainstorming sessions more than once. But it is one thing to have your own employees and quite another thing to have unknown influential people who can either reward or upset the moderator.

Within two hours I had given him an extract of what I knew - the meaning of the session, the logic, structure, priorities and indicators of success, questions at each stage, ways to get to the truth, attitudes toward conflict, typical problems and how to solve them. Since the “student” trusted me and was motivated to learn, he absorbed every insight like a sponge. Because of the urgency, we did not have a chance to play out the situations in person, but otherwise I did my best. In the evening he happily reported: “Everything went according to plan. The shareholders are happy. I shined.” As expected, his career moved forward.

After such incidents, I wonder if there might be an unsatisfied demand for such knowledge. On the one hand, you just have to say: “Strategy Session” and there is an immediate line of moderators, coaches, and facilitators lined up. On the other hand, from communicating with the founders, it is clear that they do not see the benefit of typical strategy sessions and often perceive it as a necessary evil. The point is that if the moderator is a communicative charismatic and/or empathic person, it is quite easy to cheer the participants up in the short term or help them feel a sense of community. But how do you make a real shift in the group so that the systemic contradictions of the business weaken or even disappear, and the value of the business goes up? This is a conundrum that they don’t teach you to solve anywhere.

So I thought, if there are enough people willing, I would make a compact, practical course based on two decades of personal experience in group sessions as a CEO, shareholder, investor, and now business therapist.

Who will benefit from it:

  • founders, to boost the speed of change in the team and then in the business.

  • top managers, to reduce friction and conflicts in the team.

  • consultants and moderators, to increase the objective value of their services.

If you thought, “Cool! Where and when can I buy this product?”, drop me a line or two in an email or message about what you do and why it’s relevant to you.

Yours sincerely,

-Alexander


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Updraft by Alexander Lyadov

Azido 88 (music album)

There is no one profession in which mastery is achieved quickly and easily.

You have to absorb a lot of knowledge and skills by undertaking a colossal number of iterations.

But the world outside and inside a person is unstable — it swings up and down.

So it’s impossible to learn only when the circumstances and mindset are perfect.

In 90 cases out of 100 you have to overcome resistance of one kind or another.

It’s like rock climbing, where gravity pulls you down to the ground nonstop.

You have to have just as much strength in your allies to climb to the top.

It’s not about stamina, fortitude or discipline, although those can’t hurt.

Something has to pull you upward like an eagle is pulled by a warm updraft.

It doesn’t own or control the air currents, but that doesn’t upset it.

The eagle doesn’t even need to understand where it’s coming from or why it’s moving upward.

All these details are unnecessary for a steady climb, for they are secondary.

What is primary is the ability to find that flow, and then to trust the vector of its power.

Well, everything is clear with the eagle, but what about the man? What pushes him up and forward?

Meet your Curiosity.

Sincerely yours,

-Alexander


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How to become a business owner? by Alexander Lyadov

The main problem of a business owner is his (or her) total solitude. This means that he literally has to think about everything himself. Like a school troop leader on a camping trip, the entrepreneur has the ultimate responsibility for everyone. Few people are able not only to offer him something sensible, but no one is even able to understand the scale and severity of his problems.

But at the same time it gives you a unique opportunity no matter what level in the company you are at now. Of course, you can continue to complain about how unreasonably everything in the company is organized and what keeps you from doing your job. You can blame it all on the business owner, expecting him to have a miraculous epiphany and instantly solve all the current problems.

Alternatively, I suggest that you look at things from a different vantage point. Imagine that you are the owner of this business and you sincerely want it to grow steadily and quickly. With your mind on the top of the mountain, take a broad look at all the current problems of the business and all the resources available to it - yourself, top managers, CEO, all departments, physical assets, brands, processes, etc. And then ask yourself the question, "What should my action be so that the whole business will do well as a result?"

Of course, at first this perspective will feel strange. It's too tempting to slip into the familiar position of being owed something by those at the top. Perhaps at times this will create conflicts with colleagues pursuing their own local interest. 

But then you will notice that there is a new point of reference in your thinking, and a strong pivot in your arguments. Even if someone disagrees with you and your proposal is pushed aside, you know for a fact that you are right. After all, now when you propose something, you are not thinking about yourself or your department, but about the improvement of the company as a whole. You will be surprised to find that almost no one around you thinks this way. 

It's only a matter of time before the founder or CEO turns his attention to you. He very rarely meets someone like you in the marketplace, and certainly within the company, he would not even hope to find one. After that your career will switch into turbo mode and the only limitation will be the speed at which you as a manager can grow. 

Of course, you may end up in a bad company where the top management is corrupt and the shareholders don't care about anything. But if you practice the mindset of the owner, you're still in the driver's seat. If you constantly analyze the situation, make decisions, and act like a true business owner, you're just doomed to eventually become one. Sooner or later you will be spotted by the firm's competitors and offered compensation with options. Or, you will decide to start your own business after noticing the unsatisfied problems of your clients.

An owner is not so much a legal right to stock as it is a life choice, a way of thinking, and a willingness to subordinate your whole self to the business. Make a clerk a partner - tomorrow he will lose everything. Take away an entrepreneur's business and soon he will create two more. Function always determines form, not the other way around. The owner, it's only later on paper, but first it's in your head.

Sincerely yours,

-Alexander


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Prima Donna or Superstar? by Alexander Lyadov

Probably nothing in business is as exhausting as managing people.

Especially if they are gifted creators, not low-skilled performers.

Their gift is a double-edged sword that can make or break a business.

Push too hard and you get a revolt against the dictatorship.

But let go of control, and all this power dissipates into conflicts inside and nonsense outside.

From the analysis of the cases it is clear that pockets of both anarchy and despotism arise.

One way or another, the efficiency of the team, like that X in mathematics, tends to zero.

Following a fall in labor productivity, the company’s net profits shrink.

The lack of funds reduces the founder’s room for maneuver to a minimum.

There are a lot of management dilemmas in the vein of “Execute not pardon”.

In a crisis such a business will quickly die out, and in stable conditions it will not grow.

The irony is that capricious divas can be quickly turned into superstars.

How? Scattered photons have to be collected in a directed laser beam.

If it’s that easy, why isn’t it happening all the time?

This is a basal job no one can do, only the founder.

Sincerely yours,

-Alexander


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Stop adding legs to the drawn snake by Alexander Lyadov

Suppose you meet a stranger who offers to get rid of a bunch of problems that have long been complicating your life in one fell swoop. But there is a nuance - while the interlocutor sees the obvious cause of your torments, you were not aware of it, and, pouring sweat, continued to drag the heavy burden for years. The alternative - you have long ago made many attempts to get rid of the annoying symptoms on your own, but have failed and finally accepted that nothing can be done and that this is your fate. In both cases, it’s as if there is a problem, but it’s as if there isn’t.

How will you meet a stranger’s proposal? Obviously, with a mixture of bewilderment, mistrust and skepticism. It will take him a truly titanic effort to overcome this barrier by conveying ironclad logic, objective facts, the benefits of change, and the dangers of maintaining the status quo. But all this work will be in spite of, not thanks to, since you have no motivation to change anything. By definition, there is no answer without a question. This kind of over effort is energy wasted. It’s like making a fire out of wet twigs in the woods. Or, as the Buddhists would say, adding legs to the drawn snake.

Yet all too often, companies stubbornly try to push a service or product to the wrong customers and/or at the wrong time. Advertising, sales, and negotiations are like a cruel baby pulling the tail of a poor cat who resists and begs to be left alone. What's more, there is a whole industry that promises to quickly teach you how to impose your will on customers. Where does this propensity for violence and cynicism come from? I think it comes from impatience, greed, and lazy thinking. When you want it all right now, like a junkie, you’ll do anything to get your fix. So what to do?

It is necessary to interrupt the dangerous craving for pleasure. Practically, this means pushing the transaction into the future, to feel indifferent to the result in the short term. In this space, peace reigns instead of hysteria, and curiosity ensues. These are optimal conditions to explore and experiment, answering the questions: “Who are my ideal clients? How do I differentiate them from the rest? What are their true needs?” The advantage of this approach is that even a little clarification rewards the entrepreneur, as if he were the captain of a ship tweaking the spyglass to enhance the contours of the land. Soon the feedback loops will present the insight that your ideal clients are those who have recognized their problem, tried to solve it themselves, but are not resigned to failure, but instead are determined to find a solution together with you.

Yours sincerely,

-Alexander


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Luck or no luck by Alexander Lyadov

Locust plague in Africa and the Middle East, unknown photographer

“Little did I know that all the times I thought I was good, I had only been lucky.” That’s a quote from “What I Learned from Losing a Million Dollars,” which I’m currently reading before I go to bed. Alas, it is too tempting for a businessman to mistake Fortune's whim for his own merits. In any market, as in the savannah, periodically there comes a period of long and generous rains. Then all emerge from anabiosis, even old poles put down roots. In terms of fecundity, all plants and animals break records. Certainly some grow slower and some grow faster, but there are no bankruptcies in the market at this time, as the abundant cash flow and high profits cover up all the sins. A businessman doesn’t have to make an extra effort; all he has to do is answer incoming customer calls.

But everything in nature is cyclical, so a period of drought is inevitable. Recession, war, revolution, hurricane, locust infestation or pestilence - for any one reason, the water of life disappears. Now the majesty of chance changes its sign to minus and pulls any business to the bottom with a heavy weight. Like a finicky auditor, force majeure exposes the company’s vulnerabilities, which the founder was always vaguely aware of, but was in no hurry to eliminate. Customer omnivorousness, cost-based pricing, an imbalance of responsibility and authority, team conflicts, bloated overheads, lack of decision-making processes, an unformulated business vision-these and other mistakes add up in a hostile environment, increasing the devastating effect on business many times over.

Such experiences will open one founder’s eyes to the extent to which his past successes owe to luck, not his IQ. And someone else will blame the sorry state of the business solely on the toxic context. That’s convenient - when things are lousy, the environment is responsible, and when they are spectacular, the businessman is credited. Not surprisingly, collapse teaches us better than triumph. There are many ways to get to the top, but only a limited number of ways to fail. In fact, this is why in any risky activity, whether skydiving, stock trading or entrepreneurship, the first thing to learn is the safety manual, that is, how to protect yourself from devastating risks. Fortunately, everyone is capable of accumulating this kind of expertise. In business, a compound interest works for the entrepreneur, provided that, firstly, the term is long enough, and secondly, he retains the right to participate in the game.

Yours sincerely,

-Alexander


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How much is it worth? by Alexander Lyadov

Not thinking about the value of your business is just as bad as dwelling on it. Why? Every game has a purpose for which all participants originally came together. Is the meaning of soccer exhausted by winning the World Cup? No, but without counting goals, kicking a ball wouldn’t excite 3.5 billion fans. By playing soccer, someone may be looking for entertainment, recognition, companionship, or even spiritual growth. Anyone can derive any additional value from the game. But only as long as he tries his best to win, not conceding but scoring goals against his opponent.

Similarly, business is a game whose goal is to create cash flow today and in the future. And if you bring the cash flow to the here and now, you get Company Value (CV). The market can idolize your business or devalue it to zero - that’s secondary. The important thing is, hand on heart, how much do you think your business is worth? Accuracy to the second decimal point is not necessary, a rough estimate is enough. An estimate of what? Progress in the game - is there an increase from CV1 to CV2 in 3 years, for example.

Without it, the founder’s priorities get confused in his head, and the company gets devoured by chaos. On the contrary, thinking about value, once a year or a quarter, reinforces the vector of order.

Yours sincerely,

-Alexander


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Your Game Design by Alexander Lyadov

Josh Buckley, investor and entrepreneur, formerly CEO of Product Hunt and founder of Mino Games, a top 25 grossing mobile gaming company. Josh articulated the elements of successful game design:

  1. Frequent Feedback Loops.

  2. Variable Outcomes.

  3. Sense of Control.

  4. Connection to a Meta-Game.

If you recall an experience from your childhood, when, forgetting about food and rest, you were engrossed in the game, all four elements were certainly present. You instantly knew when something was going wrong, victory and defeat were not predetermined, it was clear that much depended on you, and of course, the particular game was always part of something bigger, whether it was the adventures of longtime friends or the preparation for your sports club’s competitions.

Then something happened and our natural skill of playing began to fade. Forcing ourselves to do tests in school, we often wondered who needed that knowledge in the first place. Once we started working, we didn’t understand, and no one was in a hurry to tell us what should be considered a desirable result and what your role was in achieving it. If it was a large corporation, the sense of real control came only closer to the organizational top. As for what connection all this daily hustle and bustle had with something fundamentally and vitally important to us, many tried to avoid the question because they knew - no one had a real answer.

If you read this newsletter regularly, it means that you are ripe for finding an answer. And not just formal excuses and other people’s smartassery, but something that is of value to you. How can I be so sure? Because I, too, have been searching for those answers for a long time. Perhaps our Game is called: “Hunting for Personal Meaning”?

Going back to Josh’s observations, it’s easy to see that insight from mobile gaming is applicable to any area that’s important to you - business, sports, hobbies and life in general. What’s more, by superimposing these criteria on top, like a stencil, you can figure out exactly what’s wrong with your business right now, for example:

  1. Key decisions in the company take a long time, in their implementation is bogged down as in jelly, yes or no?

  2. You are not satisfied with the modest results that you have now, but how to raise sales, profits and company value many times remains a mystery, yes or no?

  3. Top managers are conflicted and fighting among themselves for power, avoiding responsibility and complaining about lack of resources and authority, yes or no?

  4. No one, including you, can give a clear answer to the question, “What is this all about?”, yes or no?

Depending on your answers, you can assess to what extent your business is an exciting and rewarding Game or a tedious slave galley.

Yours sincerely,

-Alexander


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The Surprisingly Affordable Path to Your Optimal State by Alexander Lyadov

Rockwell Kent, doing much with very little

Rockwell Kent, doing much with very little

 


There is a rare time of day when I feel at the peak of my abilities. My body is energized, my spirit is calm, and my mind is focused like a laser beam. I don't reach my peak state during a refreshing sleep or a quiet night. Instead, I achieve it by breaking a sweat with mace or kettlebell workouts and then alternating between hot and cold showers. According to Stanford neuroscientist Andrew Huberman, an ice shower can increase dopamine levels as much as nicotine, and the effects last even longer [1].

It's amazing that such a simple button exists to switch the body into turbo mode. Fortunately, there is plenty of ice water available everywhere you go. Water can have a profound effect, whether it's providing a sense of Nirvana or causing pneumonia. It all comes down to the right dose and attitude. The cold should be manageable but uncomfortable, much like a session of psychotherapy. And a voluntary mindset can eliminate the seemingly insurmountable barrier.

I'm continuously reminded that everything we need is right at our fingertips. For example, an entrepreneur might struggle with a problem for years, but one conversation can transform it into a gift. The co-founders' conflict disappears when the false assumption that fuelled it is removed. A company can avoid the need for expensive venture capital if customers are willing to pay a premium for its products. These examples are countless, and they underscore the main fact that I cannot deny. It's not about the impasse that we face but rather the opportunities that we (don't) see.


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What's the meaning of corporate governance? by Alexander Lyadov

An answer in plain language that would have helped me greatly years ago.

When it comes to corporate governance among entrepreneurs and top managers, one can often observe a reaction of confusion, awe or skepticism. Some are simply confused by the variety of new terms, concepts and practices. Others dogmatically believe that they have found the solution to all problems and expect success as a result of formally performing the rituals of the new religion. Still others, observing the behavior of the rest, scornfully ridicule the next fashionable craze that produces ambiguous results. More and more words are spoken, articles published, and speeches made on the subject. But very few people try to explain the functional sense of corporate governance as intelligible as in the annotations to the medicines or instructions to the household tools.

The reason for a negative or distorted perception of corporate governance is partly because the subject area itself has not matured yet and even among specialists you can find different definitions of basic terms. The philosopher Thomas Kuhn divided the sciences according to the degree of paradigm development. He believed that the more the scientific community agreed on terminology, concepts, techniques, and values, the more rapidly a given science developed. Thus, by agreeing on fundamental concepts, people focus on solving increasingly complex problems, rather than arguing endlessly with each other. In this sense, physics and mathematics are at one end of the spectrum, while sociology and psychology are at the other. The paradigm of corporate governance is also still underdeveloped, although formally born several centuries ago.

The word Corporate comes from the Latin Corpus, meaning the human body, and the word Governance comes from the ancient Greek Kubernaein, meaning the art of steering a ship. Moreover, the skipper, that is, the captain of a sailing ship, is not just a beautiful metaphor. Modern corporate governance has its roots in the sixteenth-seventeenth century, when the young Dutch Republic gained independence from the Spanish Empire in a struggle and became the first bourgeois state in Europe. Within a short period of time, the Republic achieved such significant advances in trade, science, and the arts that this period has been called the Golden Age of the Netherlands. This was aided on the one hand by the protection of property rights and a stable system of taxation, and on the other by freedom of faith, enterprise, learning, and citizenship. The economy of the Republic grew at an unprecedented rate from maritime trade and the wealth of colonial possessions in Asia.

The essence of corporate governance becomes clear with the example of the Dutch East India Company (1602-1798), which was the world's first stock firm and was so powerful that it would be worth approximately $7.9 trillion today. The company's owners provided the capital and assumed the financial risks, for in those dashing times only one ship in three would return home. However, the fabulous profits from the trade in tea, spices, opium, and silk justified these uncertainties.

The captain of the ship hired the crew and contractors and was in fact the CEO of the business project - an adventurous expedition to a faraway land. As a result of the separation of ownership and control, there was inevitably a conflict of interest, which economists call the principal-agent problem. Although the stated purpose of the project was to preserve and increase shareholder capital, each member of the team also had his own self-interest. There was also inevitable asymmetry in information, making investors nervous as control of the project literally slipped from their grasp.

So there was a natural need for independent directors, whom the owners appointed to look after the project on their behalf. As a rule, two directors were sent on a voyage, one controlling the actions of the captain, and the second to monitor the purity of the first, according to the two-man rule. In fact, this basic management structure (owners, directors and the captain) is still in place today, because despite all the breakthrough technological innovations, human nature has not changed significantly, nor has the conflict between the interests of the customer and the contractor disappeared.

Today, the role of the captain of the company is played by a hired CEO and his team. Above the CEO, there is the Board of Directors, which has at least a control function. Above him is the General Stockholders' Meeting, the highest body in a joint-stock company, which is made up of the owners of the corporate rights. This is the so-called corporate governance triangle, typical of the Anglo-American model of corporate governance (I am not discussing here the Japanese and German models in order not to complicate things). The General Meeting of Shareholders appoints the members to the Board of Directors. The Board of Directors appoints and dismisses the CEO. Everything is simple and logical. Here is an apt definition from the architect of corporate governance reform, Sir Adrian Cadbury: "Corporate governance is a system by which a company can be controlled and directed."

Source: BTS Group

It was a top-down view of the corporate governance function, from investors to the captain. This is often the view that is limited to this. But there is another useful perspective, from the bottom up. Imagine you are the founder of a new business. For the first few years, while your company searches and polishes its business model, you have to make all decisions alone. That freedom may be inspiring to some, but a mature entrepreneur knows how agonizing the downside is with the responsibility for making the wrong decisions. A leader has to figure everything out on his own, being constantly under severe stress from the fact that the level of complexity of problems exceeds his level of competence. It seems that nobody can help the founder - his wife and friends do not understand the subtleties of business, the employees do not think so broadly, and it is scary and probably expensive to turn to experts from outside.

If the business survived and got back on its feet, it is likely that either the number of mistakes made was small, the market forgave everything, or competitors made mistakes much more often. Sooner or later, however, there comes a point when the founder of a company encounters abnormal events that threaten to destroy his entire business. In a remarkable article that has become a classic, Neil C. Churchill identifies five stages of small business development, which means the inevitable encounter with crises - leadership, autonomy, control, bureaucracy, etc. And although, the solutions for them are already known - growth through creativity, direction, delegation, coordination and cooperation, translating these ideas into reality is by no means a trivial exercise. In addition, crises also occur for other reasons - the entry of a global competitor into the market, the obsolescence of the current business model, changes in legislation, founder burnout, conflict between shareholders, and so on. As a result of such events, the founder, and then the entire company, plunge into chaos for a while.

Source: The Five Stages of Small Business Growth by Neil C. Churchill and Virginia L. Lewis, HBR

At such moments, the business leader is forced to admit that his own experience and intellectual power in a particular area are not enough and must seek support from outside. So, naturally, the entrepreneur finds an expert in a field that is relevant to him - for example, in attracting private investment, marketing, or launching a business in the Asian markets. Through trial and error, the manager selects an advisor whom he can trust, both as an expert and as a person. As long as the cooperation brings tangible benefits to the business, it continues, but if it has run out, the entrepreneur stops it.

Over time, the manager develops a circle of reliable external advisors in different areas, with each of whom he successfully interacts individually. One day the manager decides to bring these specialists together, for example, to discuss his particularly confusing problem. By listening to the opinions of different advisors at the same time, the entrepreneur significantly improves his understanding of the crisis situation and his options for getting out of it. This is similar to the echolocation of a bat, which navigates in total darkness using ultrasound reflected from other objects. Having seen from personal experience the usefulness of such a discussion, the next logical step for a manager is to call such a meeting an Advisory Board and hold it either regularly or as worthy problems arise. That is how the Advisory Board, the next stage in the evolution of corporate governance, is born, naturally before our eyes.

This format can last for years and benefit the founder of the business, who serves as the CEO. As before, he alone makes all decisions, but their quality increases at the expense of outsourcing the experience, knowledge and process capacity of other people. Once the CEO comes to the conclusion that he fully trusts the opinion of the Advisory Board members and wants to increase their involvement in his business. It may also be time to hire an outside professional as CEO, as the business owner wants to move away from operations and focus on vision and strategy building. The logical next step in the evolution is to turn the Advisory Board into a full Board of Directors, which will include trusted advisors as non-executive or independent directors and maybe someone from the top management (an insider or executive director), such as a CFO.

The difference is that now the founder of the business ceases to make all key decisions unilaterally and delegates some powers to the Board of Directors as a collegial body, in which he, for example, takes the role of Chairman. Now each of the directors not only recommends this or that decision, as he did before, but also bears responsibility for his mistakes. As a result, the quality of decisions is taken to new heights, which means more profits and increased business value for the owner. It is important that the transformation of the highest authority from sole authority to collegiate authority occurs gradually and organically, allowing the founder to retain control of the business at all stages. By sharing power with others, in return he acquires something more - expansion of the most limited resource in the company - himself.

So we see that the business has got the same three-tier corporate governance structure (CEO, Board, Shareholders), which, however, has grown from the bottom up. It is important to note that the main driver of the bottom-up process is improving the quality of the leader's decisions, as opposed to the top-down process where the driver of the process was control. To summarize, the point of corporate governance is to: 1) guide the company, 2) control, and 3) improve the quality of key decisions.

If the entrepreneur has not understood the origins, functions and evolution of corporate governance, there may be polar attitudes about it. In the first case, the fear of losing control over the business forces the owner to avoid any practices of corporate management, and thus to limit the quality of his strategic decisions. Then, in the best case, business growth rates slow down, competitive advantage weakens, market share is lost, talented employees leave and windows of new opportunities close. There is nothing to say about the worst case.

In the second case, corporate management is perceived as a tribute to fashion "like others" or even as a religious revelation which must be ritually implemented in your company. The owner creates a Board of Directors, but he does it formally, as if he is trying to wear a suit he has chosen at random. The result is a stillborn Board which does not fulfill any of its functions. Errors in evaluating the expertise and complementarity of participants, the lack of independent directors, the unclear distribution of powers, meaningless bureaucracy, and decision-making outside the meeting - these and many other reasons make this initiative profane. Such examples generate cynicism and skepticism on the part of all observers of corporate governance in general and discredit this extremely useful tool.

Over the past 25 years I have been in various roles - as an employee, CEO of a business, an investor, a member of the Board of Directors and the Advisory Board in various companies. I have been lucky enough to observe the work of talented entrepreneurs and learn from experienced professors at Chicago Booth and Harvard Business Schools, as well as at the UCGA. I had to assemble my understanding of corporate governance gradually, like a picture out of many puzzles chaotically scattered on the floor. I really wish someone had told me in plain language how it all worked ten years ago, or better yet, twenty years ago. I hope this article will help some of the readers save time and guard against mistakes by using corporate governance in a way that is useful and meaningful.

Sincerely yours,

-Alexander


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Why is it so hard to aim high? by Alexander Lyadov

Sam Altman, co-founder and CEO of OpenAI, posted a tweet, “Aim high and do it faster." Both parts of the statement illustrate what most people do the opposite.

When I ask an entrepreneur what he wants his business to be in the future, he often paints either a low-key picture in gray tones or nothing at all. Like, what is the point of dreaming about something that is obviously not feasible. Humanly it is understandable, because such thoughts are trying to poison me, too. After all, if the gap between the desired future and the unacceptable present is enormous, then this fact alone is depressing. At the same time, the entrepreneur admits that despite the daily operational hassles, all the really important decisions in the company are taken with great delay, and then often get bogged down when subordinates are assigned to execute them. As a result, new products are launched late, exits to other markets are choked, a successor to the CEO role is not found, profitability is not improved, and the capitalization of the business does not really grow. You could describe it as: “Aim lower and do slower.”

Not surprisingly, the popular “motivational” approach, which calls for inspiration with overambitious goals, leads to nothing but fatigue and cynicism. The situation will be a dead end as long as the cycle time from making a key decision to receiving feedback from its implementation is not drastically reduced, that is, by orders of magnitude. How to achieve this is the topic of a separate article, because the stumbling block here is not a difficult market, not lack of capital or weak team, but false beliefs in the founder’s head. They were formed for a reason, because they were once extremely useful. But since then, everything-the environment, the company and the people-has changed, but the beliefs have remained the same because no one has questioned them. Eventually, of course, reality will force those beliefs to change, but it will charge too high a price for the lesson. From an investment standpoint, it is far more advantageous for the founder to take the initiative and regularly, quarterly or at least once a year, declare a hunt for his false beliefs. This is where the tools of corporate governance come in handy.

Sincerely yours,

-Alexander


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Who can be forgiven much? by Alexander Lyadov

Chicago Bulls Coach Phil Jackson, Michael Jordan, And Sports Illustrated Cover art print by Sports Illustrated.

Sports Illustrated Cover Art Print

 

A client can be forgiven a lot for his willingness to work honestly on himself.

A sports coach, business therapist or psychoanalyst can attest to this.

Trying to help someone who resists change with all his or her might is torture for everyone.

A declaration of intent is not enough - you need a willingness to sacrifice Y for X.

Many people lie to themselves as if they are mature, but an experienced coach can smell them a mile away.

Frequent mistakes in the past taught him that it is necessary to water only what grows itself.

This is the only way to maximize the ROI, i.e. the return on investment of the athlete and coach’s resources.

Moreover, it is a crime if a fireman directs the foam jet past the fire.

But when the fruit is ripe, then from one touch it falls into the hand from the branch.

In addition to results, such work gives joy and meaning to all participants in the process.

It is like a winch mechanism - systematic advancement toward the goal without backsliding.

Once you have had such an experience, you want to repeat it over and over again.

“Yes! Yes! But…how?” - you ask.

Start by defining your Ideal Client.

Yours sincerely,

-Alexander


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How to be? by Alexander Lyadov

There are two fundamentally different modes of action. The first is when you are confused and don’t know what to do. The second mode is when the entire path ahead is fundamentally clear to you.

The very fact that you are disoriented by the situation indicates that there is something important you did not know about the context, people, or yourself. No wonder you were caught off guard. Accordingly, in the first case, you need to turn into a solid organ of the senses and begin to scrutinize the phenomenon that shocked you. You clearly have a deficit of critical information. Of course, you can satisfy this deficit only from the outside. So you are maximally motivated to respond with interest to any news source, even if it sounds strange and the chance of getting an insight is low. It is as if the way you act encourages the world around you to give you Something. What exactly is it? You don’t know yet, but it is this Something that will eventually restore the harmony and peace you have lost. The price you pay is a kind of omnivorousness, low efficiency of efforts and discomfort from contact with things unaccustomed to you. You willingly pay the check because, compared to the hell of an unrelenting plunge into the mire of chaos, the price is quite bearable.

It’s quite different when you know exactly what you want and how it can be predictably achieved. In this case, you already have almost all the information that significantly affects the outcome. I say almost, because the world never stands still, especially now. Not keeping track of potentially dangerous changes would be careless and foolish. But, in general, your model of anything, like business, is relevant, reliable and accurate. Which allows you to lean on it confidently to move inexorably toward your desired goals. How will you take most offers, invitations and news? At the very least, without enthusiasm, probably with irritation, if not with anger. After all, “they’re all” really trying to tear you down, undermine you, and distract you from what is of self-evident value to you. Here, too, you pay a price, but of a different kind. You have to constantly say, “No!” to virtually all the outside stimuli that try to push your fear, greed, and so on. A lot of people (including you) will find themselves upset by your rejection. But if you were able earlier to find the answer to the question, “For what?” then you pay the price for the trick willingly and in full.

Why does it all matter? Depending on what situation you’re in now, the strategy you take should be completely different. Everything will be different - priorities, indicators of success, what to consider a hindrance and what, on the contrary, an asset, and so on. Try not just reading it, but applying it to your business and/or yourself. You may be pleasantly surprised at how much your decisions and actions will improve.

If your business situation is too complicated and you need advice or an intelligent sparring partner to clarify where you are, where you really aspire to go, and what the best way for you is, then you can book a meeting with us through the link in the calendar.

Yours sincerely,

-Alexander


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Our Interest Tags by Alexander Lyadov

When you publish an article on Medium, you can choose five tags to describe its essence. When the 1,000-article mark is approached, a pattern emerges all by itself. My most frequent tags are Business, Entrepreneurship, Psychology, Self-Improvement and Self-Awareness. If you read my articles for a long time, then, it turns out, these tags characterize your interests, too. But why choose these particular words?

Business is one of the most exciting and realistic games, the rules of which allow you to pursue your interests while satisfying the needs of others. Each of us is capable of producing a specific value to then make an exchange with other players. It doesn’t matter so much whether you are a company owner, an investor, an employee or a freelancer. In this game you can achieve anything, try on different roles, and most importantly, constantly build your skills. Unlike other fields, the meaning in business is difficult to distort, lose or substitute because it is easy to measure.

Entrepreneurship is appealing by the act of creation, when some brave person pulls the threads of a new order out of a tangle of frightening emptiness. Importantly, creativity is not just an unexpected combination of known things, but one that provides tangible benefits to people. Perhaps business is the most effective mechanism for getting a fair reward for real breakthroughs, even taking into account all the reservations about force majeure, immorality of some players, local system failures, etc.

Psychology is important because problems are solved by people, not machines or algorithms. A particular individual or group is extremely vulnerable, but at the same time has infinite potential to protect itself and everyone else from anything. To be sure, society itself today is a purveyor of new problems, in addition to those presented, as at all times, by nature. But despite humanity’s regular slide to the brink, I believe in man’s ability to let go of false beliefs and to steer back on the path of truth.

Without self-improvement, life would be dull, if not impossible. Just as the difference in potential between the cathode and anode conditions the flow of charged particles, so we move forward only because there is a gap between what we really want and what we currently have. The inner world of man resembles a Big Hole, in the kimberlite pipes of which there are tons of diamonds, ready to be cut.

However, without self-awareness, all the above is meaningless, or at least ineffective. Thousands of years ago our wise ancestors noticed that the bottleneck is not somewhere out there, but exclusively inside each of us. Since then, the rapid growth of technology and the vector of cultural development make this insight even more evident, poignant and irrefutable.

And what five tags would you choose to describe this newsletter?

Yours sincerely,

-Alexander


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In which direction to stretch? by Alexander Lyadov

“Lie down!” - I give my dog a command in the hallway before I feed him in the kitchen. It’s stamina training because he longs to be near food. Not daring to break my command, the dog does the hack. Lying on his side, he turns his face in my direction so he doesn’t miss the bowl being filled with food.

If you’ve seen documentaries about African animals, you’ll remember the special hyper-focused stare that predators get into their prey long before the final attack. Instead of eyes, the cheetah now has a telescopic sight, and the body has been transformed into an arrow of a Mongolian bow. In that moment, the world around the predator collapses into a single object, and all other desires and problems recede to the periphery. Is the target hit? Yes and no. The boar is still carelessly nibbling on the grass, while the leopard is already greedily consuming its information body.

When it comes to something vital, there is not much difference between a lion, a dog and a man. The body is self-targeting the target, investing resources with the right priority. Is there nothing in the way? The arrow arm fires to nail the object. Are there obstacles? The mind ingeniously solves them one by one. No opportunity to get closer? The body strives at least to lie in the direction of the target. If the ideal is kept in sight, sooner or later ways to achieve it will be revealed.

However, unlike animals, driven by a wise instinct, humans are adept at hindering themselves. First, by constantly being distracted by temptations and squandering their invaluable resource. Second, by devaluing their ability to achieve anything ambitious. Well, and most importantly, not bothering to openly and explicitly admit to themselves what they are really striving for.

Sincerely yours,

-Alexander


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