Map of Self / by Alexander Lyadov

It’s hard to prove that the human psyche has a clear structure. Scientists still haven’t extracted your “I” into a test tube (thank God). The unconscious is like a magnetic field: the eye cannot see it, yet it is there.

What’s more, the different parts of the psyche are highly active. Sometimes even aggressive. Later the person is shocked: “I don’t understand what came over me!” He thought he was the master, and suddenly he became the slave.

Psychologists do not agree on the structure of the psyche. Historian Thomas Kuhn would call this an immature paradigm—one that breeds pointless arguments and slows the progress of science.

For some, this is reason enough to say psychology is not a real science at all. You can’t touch anything with your hands, yet everything can be disputed. It’s tempting to sneer: “It’s all nonsense!”

This attitude holds while you are strong, your family is healthy, your business is growing, the country is at peace, and the market is stable. But one day an iceberg slams into the hull of your brigantine. The psyche floods and starts dragging you down.

Anyone who has felt his familiar world collapse does not laugh at psychology. The idea of “psychic structure” stops being abstract. He prays: “Call it whatever you want, but let This exist!”

Ego. Self. Archetype. Unconscious. All these “funny” words suddenly fill with deep personal meaning. They point to forces that can literally kill you or bring you back to life.

Like a lost traveler in the taiga, you grab any map with desperate hands—even crude pencil scratches. “This is already something!” It emerged from Nothing. There is now a place to stand. Details can be added later.

Studying anything alive is difficult. Life refuses to fit neat templates. And man is as mysterious as he is ordinary. Every time you think you have someone figured out, reality humbles you.

“Know thyself” — they have repeated the phrase for 2,500 years. Know — but how, exactly? Psychology offers imperfect answers. Yet if they reliably lead from darkness to light, I want them with me.

Sincerely yours,

-Alexander


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