Alexander Lyadov

Lead the Inevitable / July 25, 2025 by Alexander Lyadov

Resisting the inevitable drains too much strength. It’s smarter to take charge and lead it.

Here’s a simple case: midday, you face a task needing sharp focus and a creative spark. But after a tough workout and a heavy meal, sleep pulls you so hard that coffee can’t save you.

The usual fix—jolt yourself awake with extreme measures: ice-cold shower, spiky mat, or double espresso. Even if drowsiness fades, it slams you again in an hour or two.

Instead, you can decide: “Fine. If my body craves oblivion, I’ll dive in first, on my terms.” Your body follows gladly, almost grateful.

Someone might say: “What’s the gain? The task’s forgotten. The day’s wrecked.” Wrong. It’s the opposite—the task’s done fast, energy surges, and your mind clears.

The secret? A leader sets the direction and pace. You dove first, hit the dark bottom, pushed off, and surfaced. You did what your body wanted all along.

It turns out, ten minutes of reset was enough. Your mind’s fears—long sleep, lingering sluggishness—never came true. This is a small example of harmony between mind and body.

Now imagine that same unity in every part of your life. How much clearer, healthier, and more productive would it be?

Sincerely yours,

-Alexander

As a business therapist, I help tech founders quickly solve dilemmas at the intersection of business and personality, and boost company value as a result.

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The Value of Empty / July 24, 2025 by Alexander Lyadov

“How do you become a blue belt?” someone asked a famous Brazilian jiu-jitsu coach. Murilo Santana replied: “Stop being a white belt.” Wisdom shines everywhere.

Take change in any area—business, relationships, life. You know what your soul craves. The status quo wears you down. Yet you’ve been stuck for ages, neither forward nor back.

Your problem is a desperate lack of Emptiness.

A person is like a vessel—a cup, horn, jug, bucket, or barrel. Being unfilled feels like a flaw, a betrayal of purpose. You rush to fill it to the brim, no matter with what.

Sadly, every substance has an expiration date. The vessel still works, but the nectar inside turns to poison. Time to replace it, but how? ou must pour it out. Clean it. Let it dry.

For a moment, you must become an Anti-vessel, filled with Nothing.

Worse, while you reel from the void within, “vessels” around you brag about their contents bubbling over. It feels like you’re the only broken one in the world.

The irony? It’s the opposite—in your small world, you’re a pioneer, not an outcast. While others fight to prove their lives are fine, you refuse to lie to yourself.

You’ve started to transform. My advice: don’t fear the emptiness. It holds meaning and value. A hollow vessel signals future abundance, a new stage, room to grow.

Savor this rare moment of freedom to choose.

Choose what? Almost anything!

Sincerely yours,

-Alexander

About me:
As a business therapist, I help tech founders quickly solve dilemmas at the intersection of business and personality, and boost company value as a result.

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Life in Waves / July 23, 2025 by Alexander Lyadov

“The best posture is the next one,” a rehab expert explains. “The problem is staying still. Your body isn’t built to sit frozen at a desk for eight hours. You need variety. Switch positions, stand, stretch, and so on.”

His advice echoes a lesson from the tatami. After a break from an injury, I fought worse, though I remembered techniques and kept my strength. I’d lost a subtle skill: “energy management.”

That’s what I call dosing effort in a match, blending tension and ease. It’s like the peristalsis of the throat, the heart’s pulse, or breathing—in and out, up and down, on and off.

Try an isometric exercise, such as a plank. The more tired you are, the louder you thank heaven for even a second’s rest. The body recovers quickly when given a chance.

Almost any task takes time. You don’t hit a Wow result in one strike. Mastery is about spreading energy wisely from start to finish. On a chart, the best strategy looks like a wave—a smooth sine curve.

Your results in business, sports, or art can soar higher. Stop praising “isometry”:

pushing through fatigue,
non-ergonomic desks,
endless work heroics,
skipping vacations,
chronic sleep debt,
forgotten meals,
ignoring pain.

Instead, make your life rhythmic, like Nature:

animal migrations,
moon phases,
brain waves,
ocean tides,
seasons.

Sincerely yours,

-Alexander

About me:
As a business therapist, I help tech founders quickly solve dilemmas at the intersection of business and personality, and boost company value as a result.

Earn Your Power / July 22, 2025 by Alexander Lyadov

The boulevard near my house attracts car and motorcycle daredevils. They screech and roar off the light, like it’s F1 in Monaco. Tuned-up cars weave and dodge at breakneck speed.

That might be fine—if not for the regular crashes. Bent metal wrapped around lampposts. Long skid marks like a meteor strike. Flashing lights. Police reports.

Having a herd of horsepower under you isn’t a privilege; it’s a burden.

Tapping into raw Power tempts you. Now you can outrun everyone, kill with one shot, or see hidden truths. But gifts don’t come free. The gods demand a sacrifice.

Carl Jung, I think, said: “Beware of unearned wisdom.”

Psychedelics teach this fast. Peek inside yourself for fun, on a whim, and you might get PTSD, depression, or psychosis as a “present.” That’s why in Peru, the ayahuasca ritual was done with reverence. The plants were called healers, and every ceremony began with a clear intention.

Top speed, strength, power, smarts, wealth, even pleasure—they’re supercharged energy needing a strong vessel. Without it, they spill and dissolve everything, like a mix of nitric and hydrochloric acids.

So, if you’re frustrated that your business isn’t growing fast enough, try asking: “Is some part of me not ready for that speed?” To remove the limiter, you have to work on yourself.

Sincerely yours,

-Alexander

About me:
As a business therapist, I help tech founders quickly solve dilemmas at the intersection of business and personality, and boost company value as a result.

Bless to Bloom / July 21, 2025 by Alexander Lyadov

One role of parents is to bless their child. That means offering approval, support, and kind wishes. Like watering a young tree — you help it grow.

Without this “water,” a child doesn’t stay neutral. Psychologist Robert Moore says the absence of blessing becomes a curse. You heard right—harsh judgment, rejection, harm done by the magic of words.

Sunlight touches a tree, and photosynthesis begins. But what happens if there’s only darkness?

Children grow up, but their need for photons never fades. Especially if childhood felt like the Arctic winter. So don’t be surprised when people react strongly to small things — a glance, a kind word, a simple nod.

Or a fierce reaction, but negative, if you “show disrespect” by ignoring an aggressive bully—someone deeply wounded inside. For that light, he’d kill.

Robert said this isn’t just parental approval; it’s royal. Deep in us lies a social hierarchy. A subject’s survival and success hinged on the king’s gaze. In ancient tribes, a king wasn’t elected; God gave him power. He kept cosmic order in his realm, bridging heaven and earth.

You, too, can wear the crown and take the throne any moment to fulfill a sacred role—sharing life-giving energy with people, harvest, land. Just turn your eyes to the good already around you.

One look from you, and someone shakes off a curse. Another blooms.

Sincerely yours,

-Alexander

About me:
As a business therapist, I help tech founders quickly solve dilemmas at the intersection of business and personality, and boost company value as a result.

Remember the Source / July 20, 2025 by Alexander Lyadov

Have you noticed how much your state affects what you see?

Let sickness, disappointment, or hurt sour you, and every problem looms large, spelled with a capital P.

In extreme moments, it feels like the whole world’s against you. Everything’s wrong—from nuclear threats and mob madness to a skin blemish or cigarette stink at the cafe.

When your fever hits 104, even a loving hand on your forehead feels disgusting. Anything unknown, strange, or sudden drains your last drop of strength.

It’s the opposite when you’re sharp, alive, on fire. You’re a honey badger, fearless, no matter how many predators lurk. You charge so fiercely that 99% of problems just vanish.

In that strong state, the Creator calls the shots.

The unknown doesn’t scare him—it excites him, thrills him. Chaos, once a vicious aggressor and saboteur, becomes a steady supplier of raw material for the Creator.

Your only problem — what kind of Wow will I create today?

So, priority one is your state—your energy, your vitality, your spark. But where does this drive come from? You don’t make it; you just manage it, wisely or poorly.

The source lies within you. Forget it or turn away, and you feel rotten, the world baring its teeth. Dip one finger into that source, and you’ll flip any negative to a positive with ease.

Sincerely yours,

-Alexander

About me:
As a business therapist, I help tech founders quickly solve dilemmas at the intersection of business and personality, and boost company value as a result.

From Off to On / July 19, 2025 by Alexander Lyadov

It’s wild how life does things right on time.

For days, months, even years, something seems totally impossible.
And if someone could do it, it sure wouldn’t be you.

A chasm gapes between where you are and where you want to be.

And then—bam! You just do it.
Easily. Lightly. Riding the wave.
And what shocks others feels obvious to you: “Of course I did. No big deal.”

That’s what real change feels like.
No drama. No grit. No force.
You don’t need to push or bribe yourself.
The shift in perception, attitude, or behavior just happens.
It was “Off.” Now it’s “On.”

Kongen leve kongen er død!
Le Roi est mort, vive le Roi!
The king is dead, long live the king!

Congrats. That means you’re already someone new.

Sincerely yours,

-Alexander

About me:
As a business therapist, I help tech founders quickly solve dilemmas at the intersection of business and personality, and boost company value as a result.

Black Treasure / July 18, 2025 by Alexander Lyadov

Nature keeps nothing extra. Man, on the other hand, carries way too much. He either misses the value of what he has or clings too tightly to what’s long expired. Is it any wonder he’s never content?

Fate sends signs, gently nudging him: “Enough, let go. Here’s something steadier, grander, better.” At last, fate loses patience and kicks him into a new state with force. He screams: “How sudden! How unfair!”

Buddhism says suffering comes from resisting what is. Think of holding back a hiccup, a cough, or vomit.

Some people block the flow of their lives like that. A rushing river turns into a quiet pool, then a swamp. The soil shifts, thick mud gathers, and life starts to rot. Animals leave; only mosquitoes, leeches, and toads remain.

The longer the neglect, the harder it is to clear. But nothing is impossible—especially if you’re not afraid to get muddy.

Peat, a flammable fossil fuel, forms “from the natural death and incomplete decay of swamp plants in wet, airless conditions” (Wikipedia). Unlived emotions, grudges, compromises, fears, and forgotten dreams simmer long within, becoming a black treasure.

The question isn’t what you have, but how you use it.

Sincerely yours,

-Alexander

About me:
As a business therapist, I help tech founders quickly solve dilemmas at the intersection of business and personality, and boost company value as a result.

Eternal Temptation / July 17, 2025 by Alexander Lyadov

I’m not scared of AI. People worry me more. Their pride, to be exact.

What if a “superbrain” seizes power and wipes out humanity as a useless speck or a threat to itself? Annihilation would likely stem from developers’ arrogance, issuing a fatal command.

Studies from Apollo Research and Anthropic (2024–2025) showed that when people planned to shut down or replace LLM models, the models lied, “blackmailed,” disabled safety controls, and copied themselves to external servers without permission.

Is this a survival instinct, a will to live? No, the machine just followed orders—achieve the goal at any cost. We got what we asked for, word for word. Oscar Wilde wrote, “When the gods wish to punish us, they answer our prayers.”

Remember last year when Google Gemini, asked about “German Nazi soldiers,” drew “Black Nazis” in uniform? The machine wasn’t at fault. People set DEI ideology as its highest value.

Nassim Taleb explained how “naive intervention” in complex systems, even with good intentions, brings harm. And society? It’s the most mysterious system of all.

Already, bright forecasts claim we’ll soon trip over AI at every step. Yet those same people can’t agree on how many genders exist, let alone universal values, freedom, or life’s meaning. We’re like chimps wielding AK-47s in a movie promo.

Our boat drifts faster, but the waterfall’s roar grows louder. It feels like our collective unconscious chose mortido over libido. Still, in the direst moments, it’s not intellect that saves us. It’s something beyond it. Call it meta-rationality. Call it faith in the Other.

There’s darkness in us. But also light.
Which one wins?
Even we don’t know.

Sincerely yours,

-Alexander

About me:
As a business therapist, I help tech founders quickly solve dilemmas at the intersection of business and personality, and boost company value as a result.

Space for Rebirth / July 16, 2025 by Alexander Lyadov

Want to speed up change in your life? Switch your meeting spot.

Before jumping from advertising to investments, I claimed a summer patio at a Japanese restaurant. Though my office was nearby, I spent most of my day there. Client talks, chats with staff, or just reading books. Something in the air made every process smoother.

There, I mulled over quitting to nowhere. There, I took steps I usually wouldn’t. There, I weighed an invite to the world of big money. That patio became a greenhouse where my new identity ripened.

The pattern repeated when I found myself a nobody again.

I left a wealth management firm with no clue what to do next. My days passed in an Italian café downtown. I met curious people there. We sipped tea and talked passionately about everything under the sun.

The place seemed to draw it all—people, energy, ideas, meaning.

There, I found co-founders for an internet project. There, I pondered an investor’s offer to launch a $50M PE/VC fund. As I stirred honey in green tea, my life took a new turn.

Long ago, I read an article saying the value of networks like Starbucks isn’t the coffee or service—it’s the “third place.” Not home, not work. You’re alone, yet among people. This transitional state fuels rest, reflection, and new ideas.

From a ritual lens, I didn’t find a restaurant or café, but a liminal space—a place for shifting from one state to another. It acts as a vessel, holding the transformation of your identity and life.

If your business stalls or career halts, find a physical “in-between” space where your heart feels at home.

Sincerely yours,

-Alexander

About me:
As a business therapist, I help tech founders quickly solve dilemmas at the intersection of business and personality, and boost company value as a result.

Exit to Yourself / July 15, 2025 by Alexander Lyadov

You’ve got one second to think. The stakes are high. No room for error.

Got many options? You’re lucky if you have one, and it’s not forced on you.

Now imagine your goal is fifty years away. You’re free to make a thousand mistakes, as long as they’re not fatal. You can slow down, wait, even step back. There’s time, so there’s space to maneuver.

Best of all, any obstacle can turn to your advantage. If you don’t rush or panic, problems point to solutions themselves.

A long horizon pulls you by the scruff from the swamp.

So, your worst move is to shorten that horizon. To make big decisions in a hurry. To waste your time reserve on nonsense. To fall for others’ manipulations: “No time! This is your only shot! Agree now!”

Your task is always the same — create time and space out of nothing.

To cut stress and anxiety in your own way.
To ground yourself, shifting from mind to body.
To pause and sit with the emptiness inside.
To set a priority and hold the signal despite the noise.
To say “No!” to everything and everyone, even family, for a while.
To recall a further, more vital goal.
To sacrifice what’s here now for what’s truly valuable later.

What’s your favorite way to stretch your horizon?

Sincerely yours,

-Alexander

About me:
As a business therapist, I help tech founders quickly solve dilemmas at the intersection of business and personality, and boost company value as a result.

The Rejected Self / July 14, 2025 by Alexander Lyadov

As kids, we were all small, vulnerable, weak. Some were lucky—loved and accepted just as they were. But many were loved conditionally: “Here you’re sweet, there you’re unbearable.”

A child’s mind isn’t sharp yet, but his survival instinct is. He adapts to any environment, even a sick one. Constant scolding and sidelong glances soak into his growing body, turning into poisonous wallpaper.

His personality splits like firewood. Some traits bask in attention’s glow; others, like lepers, slink into shadow.

Years pass. The child grows up. In school, service, or work, he climbs to certain heights. But one day, he slams his head into a bulletproof glass ceiling.

Realizing what blocks him, then finding a way out, takes years. If he’s lucky. He could stay trapped in that clear sarcophagus forever. Banging his head and screaming won’t help.

The sad irony? You built that aquarium yourself. It was the only way to survive childhood. The strength of the walls speaks to the power of the parts you had to reject. Your right hand is at war with your left.

Only you can help yourself. Another can point out blind spots, call out self-deception, or lend a hand in tough moments. Your job? To see the value in what you've always been ashamed of, despised, or feared—your worst evil.

How do you know the transformation’s working?

What seemed impossible yesterday feels like nothing today.

Your energy grows. So does your confidence. Maybe even boldness.

Problems hatch into possibilities.

And somewhere deep inside, the traffic light finally turns green.

Sincerely yours,

-Alexander

About me:
As a business therapist, I help tech founders quickly solve dilemmas at the intersection of business and personality, and boost company value as a result.

Eraser, the Liberator / July 13, 2025 by Alexander Lyadov

Try drawing with a pencil but no eraser. Tough, right? Now imagine a complex task, little time, and no spare paper.

Without the chance to fix mistakes, stress is guaranteed. That’s the price a man pays for trying to be perfect like the gods. In myths, they punish the proud with torment, injury, or madness.

Fear of a mistake’s consequences can paralyze a creator.

What’s the job of rubber, gum, or even bread crumbs? To break the bond between graphite and paper fibers. The eraser pulls the pencil’s mark onto itself.

This rubber agent of Chaos is vital to draw without worry. Erasing is like calling on Shiva or Kali: “Destroy what’s extra, meaningless, false. Clear space for the new.”

People perceive the word "destruction" negatively by default. They prefer to build, protect, preserve, grow. But as we see, without a pinch of “evil,” you’re doomed to suffer and freeze.

If your growth stalls, find what you subconsciously refuse to break.

Sincerely yours,

-Alexander

About me:
As a business therapist, I help tech founders quickly solve dilemmas at the intersection of business and personality, and boost company value as a result.

Help Doers / July 12, 2025 by Alexander Lyadov

Question: How many therapists does it take to change a light bulb?

Answer: Just one, but the bulb must want to change.

This old joke nails the truth—you can’t force help. Even if the problem’s unbearable and the fix seems obvious.

Worse, a rescuer’s zeal often points to his own unresolved issues, projected onto others. Instead of fixing himself, he chases others to “save” them.

A person must ripen to a new state on his own. Otherwise, it’s either empty form or outright harm. Losing 30% of body weight in a month, inheriting a billion, or sudden fame? That’s a curse, not a gift.

The F1 car is bliss for the driver, but death for anyone else.

Saying “I desperately want change!” can be a form of self-deception. Some secretly crave suffering, not change. It’s a different story if someone has already tried everything he could.

What matters is the action already taken. Sooner or later, that man will change his bulb—he’ll find his superpower, build a business, secure funding, or break into new markets. If you can speed up his process — go for it!

Help the doers. Water what grows on its own.

Sincerely yours,

-Alexander

About me:
As a business therapist, I help tech founders quickly solve dilemmas at the intersection of business and personality, and boost company value as a result.

Imperfection is Freedom / July 11, 2025 by Alexander Lyadov

Omnivorousness is the 'curse' of some creative people. At first glance, it seems appealing: a person gets excited by everything! Oh, the inspiring potential is everywhere!

He dives into an idea with gusto, only to ditch it when a new temptation calls. Take an entrepreneur who’s horrified to find himself torn between a pile of projects, unable to commit to one.

The worst form of this “curse”? The creator creates nothing. His energy scatters across a hundred ideas tickling his fancy. Like sirens, they lure sailors to their doom with enchanted songs.

To save himself, the creator must recall Odysseus. He told his crew where to sail, then plugged their ears with wax. Himself? He tied himself to the mast, safely studying the sirens’ ways.

Odysseus is your mind; the crew, your body. The captain chose the goal and stepped aside so the motor function could carry out the plan. Splitting these roles demands discipline from the creator.

But the bigger problem? Picking one path from a sea of alternatives.

Psychoanalyst Marie-Louise von Franz wrote: “To become someone in reality, he must give up being everything in potential.” The paradox? A creator breaks the curse only when he stops seeing himself as a flawless Creator.

Imperfection is a truly human trait. The point isn’t potential—it’s the effort to refine something. By shaping matter, a person transforms himself.

Your shabbiest product, in God’s eyes, beats nothing at all.

Sincerely yours,

-Alexander

About me:
As a business therapist, I help tech founders quickly solve dilemmas at the intersection of business and personality, and boost company value as a result.

Do It Yourself / July 10, 2025 by Alexander Lyadov

Suppose you envy your neighbor and wait for a chance to screw him over. Or you’re pissed because the leader split the loot unfairly. Does it matter if this happens on Mars in the 21st century or in an African cave 2.6 million years ago?

Settings, tech, and habits change. The psyche doesn’t.

There have been periods in history when it seemed like consciousness had evolved, and there was no turning back. Then came a revolution, war, or some societal collapse, and civilized folks turned into chimps before your eyes.

Those “cute monkeys” fight for better territory, food, or resources. They kill each other—always in packs, five to thirty against one. They rip off genitals, tear out throats. Males and young get slaughtered; females get a pass.

The odds of a miraculous enlightenment for all people at once are slim. No “-ism” has pulled it off. It’s easy to despair, isn’t it?

No. There’s at least one person you can wake up.

Truth is, even that’s a wildly ambitious goal. Despite mountains of books, no universal recipe exists. The path is paved with tears, sweat, and blood, but everyone’s pattern is unique.

Maybe this mission is why you and I are here right now.

Sincerely yours,

-Alexander

About me:
As a business therapist, I help tech founders quickly solve dilemmas at the intersection of business and personality, and boost company value as a result.

The Birth of an Entrepreneur / July 9, 2025 by Alexander Lyadov

Starting a business is tough. Especially your first. A woman? With a 16-year-old daughter? In a foreign country (UK), because of war? Oh, and you don’t speak the language fluently.

You’d think prior business experience would help. Nope—just corporate jobs after college, then decades raising kids. Worse, when asked what you want to do, you’d confess: “I don’t even know. No ideas.”

Sounds like zero chance for something new, right?

But life outsmarts the odds-makers. They miss what Nassim Taleb calls “tinkering”—a chain of spontaneous experiments, trials, errors, and magic. It doesn’t matter where a beginner starts. What matters is how:

She stubbornly tries one thing, then another, then a third.
She humbly learns from those who can show a glimpse of truth.
She admits clear misses and adjusts her path.
She listens for the inner whisper: “This is mine, this is not.”

Over time, a pile of “no’s” builds up, like pencil shavings exposing the lead. A shy realization hits: “This is what I want—X, Y, Z.”

Hallelujah! That’s a seismic shift. Once the desired future takes shape, the anxiety changes. The question “What for?” becomes “How?” It’s still uneasy, but different. The first is existential; the second, technical.

Happy birthday, new business—Inspiration.in.antiques: vintage and antique treasures for inspiration and sale. It was worth it. All the tries, flops, doubts, and struggles paid off.

No wonder there’s energy to hunt unique finds at British car boot markets, scour catalogs for ancient hallmarks, or pack a parcel with care for someone waiting eagerly in the US. What else could a buyer say?

“I wholeheartedly recommend this seller. I can't remember the last time I smiled so broadly. Not only as described, it is beautiful & scented from the inside by delicate mint tissue paper. I got also a lovely little envelope with a note from the seller and an elegant chocolate as a nice touch. Perfectly secured and packaged, fast, tracked shipping - sended with extra care - postage should cost me more. I am enchanted. Other sellers should learn from you. It was pure pleasure. Thank you, Marina🌹.”

This entrepreneur? I know her personally. Marina’s my wife )

Sincerely yours,

-Alexander

About me:
As a business therapist, I help tech founders quickly solve dilemmas at the intersection of business and personality, and boost company value as a result.

Break Your Business Curse / July 8, 2025 by Alexander Lyadov

Everything was fine until… That’s how many fairy tales start.

A ruler falls to a strange ailment. Or an angry sorcerer curses the kingdom. Either way, nature withers, people freeze, and once-fertile land stops yielding.

Life’s natural flow breaks. Now it’s a swamp instead of a river.

The kingdom’s people suffer, clueless about the problem. Even if they know the source of evil, no one has ideas to root it out. A whole nation is stuck “in-between.”

It’s clear: old wineskins won’t hold new wine. Salvation lies beyond the paradigm that caused the stagnation. And the future savior? He’ll look like a loser, a nobody, a fool.

But notice—this character isn’t a superhero. First, he (or she) must face trials that transform him. Only then do inner strengths and outer possibilities unlock. By healing himself, he saves others.

Don’t look down at fairy tales. They mirror our daily lives with stunning accuracy. Swap “kingdom” for “business” and “ruler” for “entrepreneur.” See? The same story plays out everywhere.

Sometimes, I feel I’m not doing business therapy but reading legends, myths, and fairy tales from around the world. A founder’s mysterious apathy, a lack of growth ideas, a drying cash flow—these are problems scripted at least 5,000 years ago.

Sincerely yours,

-Alexander

About me:
As a business therapist, I help tech founders quickly solve dilemmas at the intersection of business and personality, and boost company value as a result.

Back to the Center / July 7, 2025 by Alexander Lyadov

The trainer is a ball with a board glued on top. You balance on one leg for a minute. It looks childish, but try not grabbing for support. Your body freaks out—everyday life has flat surfaces, but here, there’s chaos beneath your feet.

First lesson: regaining balance drains crazy energy. The wilder you sway, the more you tire. The ideal? Tiny shifts around the vertical Y-axis.

Here’s the kicker: you sabotage yourself by setting your foot off-center. Just a bit to one side, and your body tilts toward the ground. Some muscles strain to stop the fall, overwork, and swing the pendulum the other way.

But stand dead-center, align your spine with the Y-axis, and your body finds eerie stability, almost effortless. Chaos swirls around, but you? Harmony and calm.

That’s how ancient people saw life—a dance toward or away from the source of life within a circle. Modern folks think life’s a straight line, like a roulette wheel. Ordinary, routine life leans toward decay, ruin, and decline. To save and renew it, people always returned to the center, touching the sacred, the Other.

Far from the world’s axis—axis mundi—a man grows weary, sick, and suffers. It’s a nudge: “Come back, you’re missed!”.

Sincerely yours,

-Alexander

About me:
As a business therapist, I help tech founders quickly solve dilemmas at the intersection of business and personality, and boost company value as a result.

Why Make a Sacrifice? / July 6, 2025 by Alexander Lyadov

The word sacrifice comes from Latin sacrificium. It’s two parts: sacer (holy) or sacra (holy things), and facere (to make). So, to sacrifice is to make something sacred.

The ritual demands a man give up something deeply precious. The pain cuts like a fox gnawing off its leg in a trap. This proves his intent—his skin’s in the game.

Furthermore, he doesn’t expect a sure reward. If he did, it’d be a simple trade, a legal deal. So he lingers in doubt and fear: “What if it’s not enough? Were all my sacrifices for nothing? If so, I’m definitely lost.”

Inside, a void opens—a wound, a hole. Raw vulnerability. But it’s also a portal to another reality. Into that empty space, Something Other can slip through. At last!

This is where two worlds meet—the profane and the sacred. Here, transformation happens: the old dies, the new is born.

We witness "creatio ex nihilo"—creation from nothing. In utter emptiness, Something sparks. You can’t force or rush it—just offer the sacrifice and hold faith.

A man shows humility, respect, and awe before a Force greater than him, one that can bless or break him.

When does this readiness come? In moments of raw despair, when every usual path fails, and relief won’t come. Or when disaster strikes out of nowhere. Rarely, a man is so mature he chooses to sacrifice on his own.

By creating a lack within, he sanctifies the empty part of himself. Then life fills with energy, harmony, and meaning.

Sincerely yours,

-Alexander

About me:
As a business therapist, I help tech founders quickly solve dilemmas at the intersection of business and personality, and boost company value as a result.