Invent Yourself / by Alexander Lyadov

My anti-trap device

 

A predator sees the world differently from its prey.

In a client brief, a Financier sees risk, while a Copywriter sees opportunity.

In psychotherapy, you learn to notice: “Right now, it’s the manager in me speaking.”

Identity determines perspective.

A business stumbles when its founder gets confused: “Who am I?”

The old identity has become too tight. But there’s no new one yet. Or there is no proper name. Sometimes, deep down, there’s a taboo against wearing that “crown.”

I remember how much it shook me when, ten years ago, I was trying to figure out: “Who am I now?” By then, I had already been a CEO, co-founder, financial advisor, investor, etc.

Unfortunately, I couldn’t find a name for what I was doing next. All the existing options described my strange approach only partially. I didn’t just want to work at the intersection of many fields. I had to.

Without that, I couldn’t fully engage. My brain was melting.

One day it hit me: “Screw it! Then I’ll have to invent a name.”

That’s how business therapist was born.

At first, I was embarrassed by it. Some people I knew would raise an eyebrow. But the more often I said it, the faster I got used to it. Now it’s: “What else could it be?”

A strange name reflects a strange approach by a strange person.

Makes perfect sense to me.

Accepting the otherness within myself allowed me to help others do the same.

Quite a few clients have been pleasantly surprised by the discovery:

“Oh! So that’s who I am...”

Sincerely yours,​

​-Alexander​


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