Pulse of Being / by Alexander Lyadov

The fiercest resistance from your opponent comes right before he gives up. He has nothing to lose. A desperate move is his last chance.

What's the takeaway?

You can’t afford to ease up until the end of the bout. Once, in Peru, I caught malaria because I relaxed and dropped my precautions toward the end of the trip. Brr, what a costly lesson.

What’s less obvious is that relief doesn’t come in a straight line but in waves. One moment you’re thinking: “Yes, victory is near!” and the next: “No way, it’s all pointless.”

This emotional rollercoaster—up and down—is normal. Life pulses: inhale-exhale, tension-relaxation, one-zero. Remember that, and you’ll avoid disappointment, stress, and anxiety.

The ideal strategy considers the inevitable fluctuations of any process, whether it's a short jiu-jitsu match or a long negotiation with an investor to sell a stake in your company.

Syncing with the pulse of the universe multiplies your power manyfold.

Sincerely yours,

-Alexander


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