The process of our development and the awareness of it do not always coincide.
So there is a need for change and a resistance to it within us.
Animals are lucky - their instincts guide them in time.
But man can get stuck for years, essentially struggling with himself.
He will stubbornly ignore affectionate nudges and discreet hints.
Until disaster strikes and knocks the ground out from under him.
What he had clung to with all his strength would crumble to dust.
And the frozen process finally shifts forward.
And that would be all right, but it’s a pity for the time and effort that have been wasted.
It has long been known that suffering is caused by resistance to what is.
If so, the best strategy is to recognize the inevitable early on.
How? Keep yourself from devaluing and avoiding early signals.
You need a detector of the gap between your imagined and the real.
A board, a coach, a therapist, even an observation diary.
Sincerely yours,
-Alexander
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