To change, one must exhaust oneself brutally.
When the circle of suffering turns N+1 times, boredom sets in.
It becomes clear what will happen next and what the outcome will be.
Becoming aware of meaninglessness helps to break the vicious circle.
Otherwise, it will continue, as the cycle exists not by chance.
Despite hardships and deprivations, the participant in the drama secretly enjoys it.
The pleasure is so subtle that it’s hard to notice without psychoanalysis.
Thus the 'curse' is passed from parent to child for generations.
Stopping it (or at least weakening it) is everyone's job.
The curse formula: “It’s above me. I just can’t help but _____.”
The man is no longer his own master, he is enslaved to anger, fear, control, etc.
Watching the same show over and over again is boring to death.
This means: The necessary conditions for change have matured.
Inside, the person has already become different.
It is only a matter of time before these changes manifest themselves externally.
Yours sincerely,
-Alexander
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